There is a version of strength that many Singaporean men grew up with. It looks like this: you don’t talk about your feelings. You push through. You handle things. You provide. You don’t burden others. And if something is weighing on you — well, you deal with it quietly, on your own, late at night when no one is watching. For a lot of men, this is not a choice. It is simply the water they have always swum in.